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Friday, April 27, 2007

失恋后，我们总爱问：
“我怎样可以忘记他？我很想忘记他，但我就是没法忘记他。”　

如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。
为什么要那么痛苦地去忘记一个人？
时间自然会让你忘记他。

现在，我请你干万别想着一头粉红色的大笨象。
请问，你想到的是什么？
你立刻就想到一头粉红色的大笨象了。
你愈努力想去忘记，你愈是无法忘记。
仍然爱着他，忘不了他，
是理所当然的事，不必觉得惭愧。

有些人明明忘不了，
却自欺欺人说：
“我已经忘了他。”
然而，只要别人一提起他，
她就无法控制自己。

有一天，你会忘记他的。
真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。

有一天，
你从浴室洗了一个澡出来，
扭开唱机听听自己喜欢的音乐，
你忽尔想起，
你曾经爱过一个人，
啊，原来你爱过这个人，
那仿佛是很遥远的事，
你已经一点感觉也没有了。
这就是忘记。

有一天，别人提起某某，
你才猛然想起，
你曾经爱过这个人，
现在已经不记得了。
这就是忘记。

如果时间不可以令你忘记那些不该记住的人，
我们失去的岁月又有什么意义？

若有人问我是否忘掉他了吗,
我会诚实地回答:
我还没有忘掉他
他任然在我心里最深暗的角落阴埋着

~ { 12:57 AM }
reflections of you and me;